Prive Turin, How a Swingers Club works

Swingers clubs are meeting places for people, they are frequented by couples, singles and even singles who wish to practice couple swinging or other libertine sex activities, including group sex, or exhibitionists.

Here's how they generally work:

Main features:

Discreet and private environment: Swingers clubs present themselves as private premises, often with an intimate and welcoming atmosphere, to guarantee the privacy of the participants.

Membership card compulsory for everyone: Access is reserved for members, who must sign a membership card to enter. This is a legal obligation for all premises in our sector in ITALY. Obviously the club is VM18

Rules of conduct:

Each club has its own rules, which are communicated upon entry or during the registration phase. These rules concern consent, respect for other participants, hygiene and limits of sexual interactions.

Dedicated spaces:

Inside the club there are various areas for socialising, Bar, dance floor, Wellness Area, Refreshment Area and, above all, the many private rooms called alcoves, ravines, where all those present can separate themselves to have relationships and interact with others present

How an evening goes:

Arrival and welcome:

At the entrance, new arrivals are welcomed and informed about the rules of the club.

Socialization:

The evening begins with a moment of socialization in the common areas, where people can get to know each other, have a drink and chat.

Meetings and interactions:

Couples or singles can interact with the other participants, get to know each other better and, if there is an affinity, decide to isolate themselves in one of the private rooms.

Respect for consent:

Consent is fundamental in every interaction. No one is forced to do anything they don't want to do and each approach must be respectful of the other's limits.

Important aspects:

Consent:

The consent of all participants is the basis of every sexual interaction in a swingers club.

Hygiene and safety: Condoms are present at the club and clean environments are made available to guarantee the hygiene and safety of the participants as well as control by the staff responsible for behavior in line with the rules of the libertine world.

Respect for privacy:

It is essential to respect the privacy of other participants and not disclose information or images that could identify them. AND ANY form of use of cell phones, photos, videos is FORBIDDEN AND RESULTS IN IMMEDIATE REMOVAL FROM THE CLUB, so much so that all devices must be placed in personal safes which are assigned free of charge at the entrance to the club.

Differences of a libertine club with other clubs:

It is important to distinguish libertine clubs for swingers from other types of nightclubs, such as nightclubs or strip clubs, discos or others. In swingers' clubs, THE CONCEPT OF 'MASS' DOES NOT EXIST. A private room is NEVER a place packed with people, the main objective is the meeting between people who wish to practice couple swapping or other consensual sexual activities, while in other clubs the offer is different as are the costs.

The evenings can vary from the presence of a few couples to evenings with hundreds of people but it is never absolutely predictable and data on the presence inside the club is never provided or given for obvious privacy reasons.

Final thoughts:

Swingers clubs offer an environment where people can explore their sexuality consensually and safely. However, it is important to inform yourself well about the rules of the club and always act with respect for other participants.

Club Prive Turin, a clearly growing phenomenon!

These are not 'strange' people, but people aged between 18 and 50 with medium-high social and professional status.

Couple swapping is a growing phenomenon also in Italy where as many as 3 million couples practice it. Maybe monogamy gets boring in the long run so why not spice up the relationship by experimenting with some innocent consensual transgression. Because swinging can even improve the relationship as long as both partners feel the need for it.

More and more Italians are experimenting with swinging, around 3 million have tried it at least once while 2 million do it regularly. You start to liven up the relationship, out of a desire for transgression or perhaps to test yourself and understand how far you are willing to dare. No matter what anyone says, it is practiced by ordinary people, between 18 and 50 years old, who most of the time lead very normal lives. The first approach usually takes place via the web, it is online that the territory is tested in search of the most compatible couple. If all goes well, an initial meeting follows.

The places to meet for meetings are private clubs for swingers, in Italy there are many but you have to be careful which ones you choose as many of these are practically disguised as 'brothels'. Be wary of small clubs and all those places where you see events with porn stars and/or evenings with discounted entrances for singles and/or free admission for couples. These environments are created only to attract singles and have nothing to do with our world of swingers.

The rules of the game depend almost completely on the female will. The actual relationship after an acquaintance or a drink can be consumed within the many nooks and/or private areas present in the club.

If at first glance swinging may seem like an unusual sexual practice, in reality it is one of the most hidden female fantasies and a completely normal desire as long as it is part of a couple's life that does not present dangerous deviances. This is confirmed by the proliferation of websites dedicated to swingers' advertisements and holiday places dedicated to these practices, most of the time frequented by people with an absolutely normal existence. Not to mention that, contrary to popular belief, it is not a male "perversion", on the contrary, it is the women who lead the game and satisfy the actual physical pleasure. Man often limits himself to watching as an authentic voyeur, as is his nature. Obviously, to practice the so-called swinging, deep understanding and harmony are necessary to avoid jealousy and misunderstandings that could lead to the explosion of the relationship.

Definition of the phenomenon: what is swinging? How is it considered?

This word means the partners' willingness to 'play' with sexuality, using an unusual modality that involves getting to know, dating and then exchanging the erotic sexual experience with another couple. Unfortunately, the transgression aspect is still considered 'perversion' today, even though the majority of swinger couples are in perfect harmony and serenity, because they experience this form of pleasure in the name of play, fun and mutual respect.

Can it be considered a sort of consensual betrayal?

Actually no. Although in this regard we must make a clarification: unfortunately there are still many people who decide to dedicate themselves to couple exchange even though they are not actually engaged or married. In other words, there are many men who 'rent' a woman for an evening (sometimes they also have a friend accompany them) in order to be able to enter the private rooms by spending a lower amount than expected (single men pay more) and having sexual fun without any worry of the betrayal committed against his wife, who perhaps, unaware, is at home with the children. Generally speaking, however, real swinging couples see the transgressive game not as a consensual betrayal, but more simply as a great and shared understanding.

What are the couple dynamics that allow you to exchange as a couple?

Complicity as the first element, but also trust. Some of the couples place great emphasis on carefully planning rules and boundaries before any type of interaction with other couples. This reinforces the importance of experiencing swinging within a precise, complicit and close-knit dyadic climate between partners.

Is it true that it is increasingly widespread thanks to the web?

The internet has certainly facilitated the practice, allowing partners not only to compare and agree virtually before any type of real meeting, but also to experiment with the possible transgression from the comfort of home, using the webcam for example. Couples usually look for each other through dating or swinging sites. They implement a real negotiation of 'knowledge', so as to probe and understand exactly whether beyond the visual, physical and aesthetic aspect, there is also another intimacy.

What are the channels through which this can be done?

Usually we read up online, then intrigued by certain places, they agree to go and see with their own eyes what happens and how it is experienced beyond their imagination. Only once they are sure they want to share the experience, then and only then, the couple begins to approach any other swingers. A classic approach method concerns the man, who, once directed by his partner towards the possible exchange couple, goes to personally introduce himself to the male partner of the other dyad. This aspect, which seems very chauvinistic, is instead fundamental to avoid problems during erotic games. Getting to know each other allows you to understand exactly how far you can go, as well as evaluating any positive or negative aspects of the couple themselves. It is the woman who manages the exchange, as well as the movements associated with it. Furthermore, it is always the partner who establishes what will be done on an erotic level, including sexual practices.

Why do people become swingers?

Often the spark that pushes a couple to experiment with this extreme game is the boredom and monotony of menage a deux, even if the components of curiosity and interest in swinging were probably already present previously. Those who indulge in this erotic experience have often always imagined being able to experience it and share it with their partner. In men it is perhaps easier, also because the most recurrent erotic fantasy is still having a threesome with a friend of hers. For women, what probably drives them is freedom of action, associated with an element of transgression and novelty.

Are there different types of swingers?

It is important to differentiate three types of unconventional sexuality regarding couple swinging: the first is simple swinging, the second is open couples and the third is polyamory. Swinging is clearly relegated to a couple's desire to exchange partners with another couple who are friends or meet casually. The open couple, on the other hand, can indulge in typical swinging behavior, but also in separate and external relationships with the couple. Even in the open couple, one could recognize a man who does not wish to exchange his partner, but loves to watch his partner have sex with another man (cuckold), have sex with two women, see his partner having sapphic sex and possibly participate, let his partner experiment and share the thrill of the gang bang. Polyamory, a newborn among transgressive practices, is instead a tendency to live, share and experience eroticism and love between multiple people at the same time.

Is this type of erotic encounter for everyone?

Swinging is not for everyone. I believe that if one partner tries to convince the other to make the exchange, this couple strongly risks separation. There probably basically needs to be a certain 'predisposition' in wanting to practice it and the certainty of the partner's complicity to actually implement it.

Are there any rules?

There are certainly very specific rules within the couple's relational dynamics. The main role is that of the woman: the attention during the erotic and sexual exchange is mainly aimed at female pleasure. Usually it is the partners who choose the couple or single person for the exchange. The man, a knight, will certify that the situation is not dangerous by going to meet them personally. If the meeting to get to know each other has had a positive outcome, only then will the 4 or 3 interaction begin, experimenting with the 'game' of pleasure. Clearly, many couples, even if they meet in ad hoc venues, do not necessarily engage in sexuality at the first meeting. Sometimes it is possible that an initial friendship relationship is established, and then the game of exchange can be played out, possibly within the home.

What is the kind of pleasure a man feels?

Arousal is mainly given by 'looking' and this essentially also refers to the neurophysiology of the male sexual response. The man who practices couple swinging is particularly attracted to seeing his partner live an intense and orgasmic experience with another, but he is also very excited by seeing a relationship between two women. Furthermore, even the role of power understood as managing the relationship, negotiating with the other man of the other couple, having the pleasure of one's partner are all elements of strong excitement.

The woman instead?

Female pleasure is intense. The attention paid to her represents the highest degree of eroticism. In fact, in the couple's exchange there is not, as is often mistakenly imagined, a selfish aspect of male pleasure, on the contrary: erotic games in the name of female orgasmic multiplicity are frequent. Women feel free to request particular sexual attention from their partners, confident that that specific request will be satisfied.